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im 15 and im 35 weeks pregnant, my boyfriend left me a week before i found out i was pregnant and after about 2 weeks he had zero feelings for me anymore, i told him i was pregnant and it didnt change anything. hes had 3 girlfriends since. and has liked about 10 girls altogether. he was actually denying it was his baby at first. but hes the only guy ive ever slept with. about a month ago he started to warm up a bit, we had only talked about 2 times before that. and still dont talk much now. he came to the baby shower, but didnt say anything and kept to himself. he said hes gunna be there and be a dad, but i dont think he will. he said he was looking for a job but all his friends say that hes not looking at all and hes just telling me that. well anyways, i still have ALOT of feelings for him and havent stopped since we broke up. and i was wondering if from what ive said, does it sound like hes never gunna have feelings for me again and be one of those dads that only see there kid once a month for an hour or two... if that?
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Yes Honey it does sound that way. Get over him, its hard but for your baby's sake do it. My ex is that way with my oldest son. He only wants to see him when it is convenient for him. Bullc___p! You will find someone who loves you and your baby, but right now concentrate on your baby. Do you have friends and/or family that will help?
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take it slow you're both young don't let people toil with your hopes and dreams but be realistic , what you say is probably what is going on and you will only know the outcome slowly and as time goes on . You sound very pleasant go easy on yourself .
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Knowing all that, if I had been at that baby shower with him, I'd have kicked his a$s! Did he get a lot of dirty looks at least? I'm sorry you have to go through this without a partner, but that doesn't mean you have to be alone either. Seems as though there are a ton of preg teens out there nowadays... you could probably even link up with one through the teen preg forum. Or find a mother group in your area. The people at a community center or library might know about the local groups like that. Good luck!
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im going threw the same thing as your ex is. i made a post "need help from guys" you wanna talk sometime if you have e-mail
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You have much bigger things to worry about. Why do you want to keep a guy like this, anyway? You will be happier in the long run if you let him go, in terms of your relationship, and just treat him as the father of the baby. Sorry, but you do not need to wear yourself out trying to get him back. If he doesn't want to be with you, there's nothing you can do!
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