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I was wondering if it is ok to have s_x while pregnant? I am 4 months pregnant with twins i was just wondering if it would be ok?
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Sure. Have s_x all you want. The only reason you shouldn't have s_x is if you are spotting or your doctor has put you on pelvic rest because you have some sort of pregnancy complication. I read another of your questions about not wanting to have s_x too.......I'm really tired and even though I want to badly sometimes, I can't bring myself to start anything. Once he does though, it's a different story. Suddenly you don't mind being so tired anymore. My advice is to just give it a try, get something started, and see if that puts you more in the mood.
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Oh, and if by "do stuff" you meant like go out lol my appologies. Since this is the s_x forum I didn't think you meant it in a different way, but if you did, sorry for part of my last response!
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no thats wat i meant "wanting to have s_x" i am only 16 and i am like really tired. I understand he has needs too.. and i will try but when ur tired u dont feel like it.. you know
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Hmm, well I never want to when he gets off late from work and tries to wake me up, or after I've been laying down a while and am just about to fall asleep. If I'm just the normal everday tired and he works for it a little I don't mind. I'm not really into jumping on him on my own. If you do have s_x do you enjoy it right now or are you too tired to even like it while it's going on? Maybe something relaxing like a bubble bath or back ma__sage before would help.
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If i am like laying down in my bed and i am about to fall asleep and he wants to do it.. i cant bring myself to do that.. and i feel like a horrible girlfriend... We tried going for walks at night and trying stuff from there.. that seems to work and then i am ok.. We came up with a game for every monday and friday but umm we pull a piece of paper that has wat the other wants u to do.. and we take turns... that works too.. Its getting better. If i do have s_x, i do enjoy but sometimes i cant bring myself to enjoy it.. Again i feel like a horrible girlfriend... should i feel this way? or do i need to put more of myself out there persay?
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No, no you're fine. Once I've been laying down for a while I just want to be left alone to go to sleep because I'm already halfway there. And that was the same even before I was pregnant. Monday and Friday gives you at least twice a week so that's not bad at all.
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I just hope i am doing ok.. like i want to be able to enjoy things like that but when im tired its like dont bother, and i feel bad, then i cry because its like im not making him happy but i guess im doing ok....
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